So that you don't regret it in 10, 20 or 30 years, you SHOULD NOT BE AFRAID today!
It's only when you really grow up that you start to realize truths and wisdom in life lessons, which your father used to teach you (or today). Which 15 of his lessons do you keep in mind?
1. You'll never feel like you're getting old.
When you get old, you don't feel it. Most of the time you will feel the way you do now. Only that you will be a little smarter and that you will believe in yourself more. Why? Because by then you will have found your place in this world and understood what is most important. Don't be afraid of aging!
2. Bad things will happen in your life and in the lives of your loved ones.
Problems are an integral part of life. People lose their jobs, have accidents, get sick. As long as you are young and everything is fine, it is hard to understand this harsh truth. The best and hardest thing you can do when you're in trouble is to stay calm. You might want to scream and beat up everyone around you, but you have to be smarter. Remember that anger only complicates things. Even though it's bad right now, it's an opportunity to get stronger!
3. The first impression is not always the right one.
At first glance, every situation and every person can be seen as normal. Time will tell how things really are. Sometimes it will take a long, long time.
4. Success comes when you find your focus.
Focus on the 2 to 3 most important things at once. When you try to do everything, the result is usually the opposite of what you wanted and expected.
5. Love yourself and put yourself first.
Strive to become the person you want to be. Nourish your body and mind. He learns something new every day.
6. Sometimes you have to try - the first time, the second time, the third time.
Forget your doubts and fears for a moment. Ask yourself: if I try and fail at the first one, what will I lose and what will I gain? The only real answer to this question is: you won't lose anything except some time. At the same time, you will learn an important lesson and know what to do in the next attempt. Very few people succeed right away!
7. In order to get something, you have to give something.
By giving others your support, advice and making their lives more beautiful, you also give them priceless gifts. And it will all come back.
8. Nothing in life is worth a big fight.
Do not fight with your partner, brothers, sisters, neighbors. When you feel rage inside and are about to say some nasty words to someone, bite your tongue, turn around and walk away. Give yourself time to calm down. You don't need all the power in the world to prove you're right. You don't have to be right. Basically, it doesn't matter at all!
9. Don't try to impress everyone.
This desire brings nothing but the transitory gratification of the ego. Be what you are. Choose a small circle of people with whom you will have a deep bond and understanding.
10. Have fun.
Fun is underrated in this life. People often want to show fun as something bad. This is completely wrong. Always find time to have a good time!
11. Don't make it complicated - life is best when it's simple.
The beauty of this world is ease, simplicity. Pick a few things that are most important to you and focus on them. Forget everything else. Do what you love, not what they offer you.
12. You remember some little things for the rest of your life.
Pay attention to the little things. Dinner with the family, the opportunity to watch your child sleep, a walk with childhood friends... These little things make life!
13. The best thing you can do for another person is to give them as little advice as possible.
The life of each of us is unique and belongs exclusively to us. Each of us must live, breathe and continue our journey where sooner or later we will find answers to our questions.
14. Plan your time and your money.
Life is constantly changing. Be careful. Learn to distinguish between important and unimportant. Don't buy what you don't need. Don't spend more than you earn. Don't let money control you - control it.
15. If you do nothing, a dream will remain just a dream.
Stop dreaming and start working on making your dreams come true. So that you don't regret it in 10, 20, 30 years, you SHOULD NOT BE AFRAID today!