Why should only men conquer and seduce? Women are also masters of seduction.
Seduction is a game that doesn't have to be serious and stressful, and that gives you room to maneuver - you can back off before you go too far.
Discover your seduction style
Does it suit your personality more to be sensitive and playful or to be withdrawn, subtle, mysterious. Will your irritation come from your body language and eye contact or your words?
Take advantage of technology
You meet a guy you like through social media. You can learn a lot about him just by looking at his photos - you'll see what his social life is like (group photos in various places), whether he likes to travel, whether he plays sports, whether he has a pet, whether he's a family guy (family gatherings, tags family members) and by what he connects you will see what his taste and interests are.
If you are already corresponding, you can reply to his message with a delay, with the message "I took a shower, I'm only now seeing the message". His brain will create images on its own without you saying anything provocative.
Flirt and then back off
Women go crazy when men do this to them, so be the first in the game. Don't be sure if you're really interested. Let him try to figure it out. Leave the door open, but don't wait for him behind the door to find you.
Use body language
Body language is key when flirting. Avoid anything too intimate or obvious. Just touch his arm for a moment while you say something as if you want to get his attention, or gently pat his knee or arm while laughing at his joke.
Don't dress too sexy. Choose just one attention-grabbing detail - the boots that make your legs look their best, or the neckline that best accentuates your bust. Don't choose boots and cleavage (and a tight skirt) all at once. Let him imagine what you look like under your clothes.
Do not press too hard
Teasing, flirting, seducing - it's a skill and you can easily overdo it. You don't want to completely confuse someone you like. Be moderate and subtle. Show him just enough to impress him, but not enough to make him 100 % sure you're interested. And know that the game ends when you kiss for the first time. Then you start building a relationship, and that cannot be built without trust and respect.
Give him a compliment
Everyone likes to be praised for their qualities, for their beauty, style, behavior, intelligence, humor.
Rule the space
When you ride it, the game takes place in an intimate space. Lean in to whisper something to him or to hear him better, then back away. Get close enough for him to smell your hair, feel the warmth of your body, then step back. If he makes a sudden move, reaches for you, or tries to kiss you and you don't like it or feel comfortable, stop him. You need to set boundaries and demand that they be respected.
Set a time
You don't want to annoy someone indefinitely. It will get boring. Intimacy is the goal of flirting and seduction, so do it gently and be careful not to go too far. If a man doesn't want to play anymore, stop teasing, respect his willingness to be open and vulnerable.
Give him space
If you flirted, seduced, teased him and nothing happened, give him space. It may take some time for him to realize that he misses your closeness, your challenge and your laughter. Don't text him.
Do not forget about self-respect
If you want to be good at conquering, don't forget self-respect. This means that you need to show that you are aware of your worth and that you believe in yourself.
