We've all been in a situation where we've grown to like someone but weren't sure if the feelings were mutual. At that time, of course, it is best to take courage and invite the person on a date or socializing, which is of course not the easiest and requires some self-confidence. That's why we asked what the experts advise and prepared for you the best way to invite your crush on a date.
1. Strengthen your relationship
You'll have a much better chance of getting a positive response if you're specific relationship with the person you like you already have. Therefore, we suggest that you use it as much as possible you talk, yes you ask about her interests, etc.
If it's about colleague, you can with him you chat on matters concerning the job, ask him for help with work..., but if you met the person through friends, you can suggest them to organize hanging out together.
Try to communicate with the person as much as possible Photo: Mart Production / Pexels2. Show interest and observe the reaction
We suggest that the person you show interest, before you ask her out. Do this on subtle way: when you see her, to her approach and start a conversation, show that you are remembered, what was the last thing she told you, you are for her take your time… Not only will you be so in an unobtrusive way hinted, that you are interested, but you will also get a sense of whether there are feelings bilateral.
If you notice that a colleague or friend stays in near you, it shows interest for your hobbies, you is watching, asking you if you need help,… this is a very good sign.
3. Decide where you will invite your crush
When a person somewhat get to know, it will also be clearer to you what kind a way of spending time suits him best. Experts advise you to start "slower" and decide on an invitation that will not represent the person too many obligations.
It means that a friend who adores sport, invite to common recreation or to a colleague who constantly talks about a certain movie you suggest that you are watch together, and then stop at drinks.
A simple and safe option also represents an invitation to coffee. Such a date will also give you time for smooth conversation.
A coffee date is an easy and safe option Photo: Ron Lach / Pexels4. Decide whether to send a message or propose a date live
Many people think that the invitation is over messages or web too much impersonal, but according to experts not necessarily so. Namely, they suggest that you choose yours main mode of communication.
This means: if you talk to your friend mostly through messages, then he can simply you write, if he has time for socializing over coffee. It is best to do this at the end of the conversation. But what if it's a colleague with whom you mostly chat Live? That's when it's best to reach out to him approach, you chat and ask him out on a date then.
5. Be aware of the possibility of rejection
Most people fear the invitation the most rejections. Of course, it may happen that the crush turns out to be of interest to you does not return, but this should not be a reason for fear.
You have to realize that rejection is something completely normal: right nobody not everyone likes it, not even the people who like it the most you admire. When you are rejected, therefore, instead of lamenting, you are the first congratulations on your courage: the first step is not something easy. Then rejoice that you are at least found out, how things stand. Now you can stop growing false hope and instead focus to someone who will give you feelings returned. You also shouldn't let rejection affect yours self-confidence: the easiest way to do this is to you list the properties, which you have the most appreciate it. Also embarrassed you don't have to be: there is no interest in someone nothing bad, on the contrary: it shows that you are ready for love, which you will with yours positive attitude must have received it soon.
