We often hear how strong women scare men. This is not true. They don't scare all men, they only scare those who are weaker than them.
Which is no surprise. Men who talk a lot but do little have nothing to offer a strong woman. They can't feed her with false promises and shallow stories - at least not for long.
A strong woman demands action. So by your side she needs a man who will be stronger than her. She needs a man who will give her as much as she gives him. Let's face it - it doesn't take much. Just respect, trust, sincere feelings and some affection. Unfortunately, it mostly lacks just that.
She needs to know that the man she is with is not afraid to roll up his sleeves and build a relationship. And he doesn't have to do all the work. She will invest the same amount of commitment in this relationship. Love must be returned and cherished, otherwise everything is in vain. There is no point in forcing things or being the one who carries most of the "burden" in the relationship.. A strong woman has done all this before. And such a relationship never worked out. She does not want to be in a relationship in which she feels lonely again, in a relationship in which all her efforts fall on barren ground.
If you're going to ask a strong woman, it's for her the best man in the world is the one who strives for it. She will immediately admire his initiative and be surprised by his persistence. A man who will not stop at an obstacle, who is ready to step out of his comfort zone and take another step, is the right man for her. She will feel safe and healthy with him.
She will gradually let down all the walls she has built up over the years. He will be patient and won't mind you going slow. He knows that good things take time. He will be there to remind her that she must not carry all the burden alone. That it's perfectly OK to relax once in a while, slow down and enjoy life.
As a rule, she is strict with herself and is her own biggest critic. A strong man he will be able to calm her down. He will convince her and tell her that she doesn't have to be perfect and have everything under control all the time. He will teach her not to plan everything in advance and according to a schedule. This man will know that she will never ask for help, so he will help her without her having to ask him for it. She is used to relying on herself, and all this will be unknown to her. But once she gets used to it, it will be like a breath of fresh air for her, a change for the better that she needed in her life.
She will know that such a man will always be there for her, even if he is not physically present. After a busy day, his kiss and warm hug will be something she looks forward to the most. She knows she can still rely on herself, but that doesn't make the man any less valuable. She still wants him in her life with all her heart.
She knows that… “even Superwoman sometimes needs the soul of Superman.” (Sia)
(Source: herway.net)
