Ironically, here are 9 tips from a divorced man. Lessons he learned through the process of loss after divorcing his wife of 16 years. I would do many things differently now!
partnership relations
You know it's bad for you. You know that you are stressed with every written word you send him and when you press the button - send. Because you know he probably won't even answer you.
When the only words left in your relationship are good day, good run and no (or they even disappear), it's time to accept that your relationship no longer has a common path. Did you finally reach a tipping point where you realized that it can't go on like this? Do you no longer recognize yourself and do not know who you have become?
When that worm of doubt creeps into you, jealousy takes up residence in you. It eats away at you day by day. You can't even sleep. He tells you creepy but false stories and in your confusion you believe him. You believe in every thought, in every moment that it shows in your mind. It assumes that nothing is as it should be.
When? How? Why? Countless questions arise in your mind. Dating after divorce is difficult, there is no manual to guide you.
The beauty of love is that you show the other your heart, your vulnerability, your fears, your madness. Love can be a crazy carousel ride. Love is beautiful if you know its magic. But it can also be painful, sometimes even scary.
Each of us may fall into temptation at some point, even if only in our minds. There are so many options available to you to not do what your mind and ego tell you to do. The person waiting for you at home - feels.
Are you possessive? Resentful? Are you hiding behind your mask of indifference? We usually don't see our mistakes. Step in front of the mirror and look deep inside yourself! What are you like when you see yourself as you are, without masks?
Romance is a veil of illusions. You dance with her, play with her and add a little magic to the relationship. And funny everyday moments creep into the relationship, discovering your own and your partner's weaknesses, getting to know your and your partner's true image.
Somewhere inside you know that your relationship is over. But you deny and cover up the imminent truth. He won't be back. He didn't leave to love you more. But he's gone forever. How to get over it?
Mistakes are a part of life, but some will never admit it. Only strong people admit and try to correct their mistakes! And a strong woman is one of those people!
Love is eternal compromise, respect and mutual communication. Is your partner one of those genuine, understanding, respectful people? Is it a partner with a capital letter? Is he the person who knows you won't be smiling all the time and you won't be happy all the time?