Are you a fan of no-strings-attached relationships? With such relationships, you try to compensate for the lack of courage to give yourself completely to someone and establish deeper relationships. You have someone, but that doesn't bind you to anything.
You don't have to work hard to maintain a relationship and nurture love. You think that you have got rid of the pains of love. Do you really have them?
If you're one of those people who aren't afraid to show your heart and take the risk of giving in and possibly ending up with a broken heart, you're probably crazy. But you didn't.
It's crazy to take relationships so superficially and lightly and get into relationships you're not ready to invest in, relationships without responsibility and commitment.
Sometimes you feel punished for taking love seriously because you don't want a loveless relationship.
There is no secure foundation in love, and relationships without strings don't really exist.
Can you be with someone who has let you know they don't want anything serious? Are you unable to understand this, because you don't know how it is possible to be in a frivolous relationship. You don't know how to be in a relationship without feeling connected. How to be with someone you can't share your worries with, which is normal when you're with someone you love.
Where are the times when sexuality was the fruit of love and fleeting relationships. Photo: Cade Prior/Unsplash
Do you think it's normal to share a bed with someone with whom you spend your time and show affection without feeling anything? No. Humans feel whether we want to or not. Pretending is stupid, superficial and irresponsible. Every human deserves respect and acceptance, especially the one you share a bed with.
You are not crazy if you enter into every relationship responsibly, rather the opposite. You are not crazy because you are developing a real human relationship. You deserve love. Everyone is!
You live in a world where people try to stay safe by pretending that they don't care, that they don't feel.
You are in a world that looks at photos and evaluates physical characteristics on the basis of which it plans intimate encounters. No obligation. If you try to find, nurture and maintain long-term relationships in this world, you become a victim of your values.
You live in a world that is scared, emotionally damaged, immature and limited who doesn't want anything serious. You wonder what is wrong with this world. And you wonder what's wrong with you because you don't understand why you would be with someone because it's modern. No involvement, no emotion. Just random lovers.
In a world of masks, show your true face. Photo: Andrey Zvyagintsev / Unsplash
Keep your courage and perseverance, trust in the universe, your values and standards. You are not crazy. And you're not the only one.
