If you think women only dream of chocolate and shoes, you are wrong. In fact, they want that spark back from the beginning of the relationship. But, hey, man! You can't just lean on your charm and expect everything to go smoothly. Couples have become masters at turning cuddling and sex into a boring routine, like watching the same episode of "Friends" every night. What is important to a woman?
Dr. Stephen Snyder, who apparently wrote the book on how to have incredibly good sex in a long-term relationship (he was probably very busy writing it), says that couples in long-term relationships lose their sense of intimacy. Well, who would have thought? Maybe it's because men feel like they've won a woman, like some kind of trophy in a video game, and then they forget to keep trying. What is important to a woman?
And now, the bombshell revelations: it's more important for women to make them feel beautiful and attractive, rather than actual sex. Shocking, isn't it? So, dear man, the next time you want to skip the foreplay and go straight to the main course, remember this.
And a word of advice to all the couples out there: if you huddle in front of the TV every night like you're watching the latest episode of a horror movie, you'll kill all the eroticism. Instead, try some spontaneous and short touches that don't necessarily lead to the bedroom. You might be surprised by the results!
