In today's world, where the culture of one-night stands and dating is largely present, many women wonder how to get into a serious relationship. We asked what the experts thought about this topic: is there a quality that would make a man commit to you?
Has it ever happened to you that you dreamed about serious, committed relationship, and your chosen one only wanted getting without obligation? There are several reasons for such purposes way and philosophy of life to emotional inaccessibility, from unresolved emotions from the past to feeling incompatibilities with you.
Nevertheless, experts note that there is something that in men stimulate desire, in order to committed to one partner: that is a sense of freedom, which they get when they are around her.
Your partner needs to feel free with you Photo: Saleh Mirzayev / PexelsWhat does freedom mean in a relationship?
Freedom in a relationship many people associate with open relationships, but this feeling can also be achieved in a relationship where two partners are involved devoted only to each other. We are talking about the freedom to your partner expressions own life potential and mission.
A man will get this feeling if you let him know that you are in his goals supported and that you are willing to walk with him in his life paths. You need to show him that you want him to develop into the best version of yourself, but yes appreciate it also exactly such, as it is. It is important to be with him share life values: the relationship you are in future each of the partners represents otherwise, namely does not have much chance of success.
The recipe for love is similar values and desires Photo: Dmitriy Ganin / PexelsWhat mistakes should you not make?
If you feel strong pressure, that you should be in a relationship and you have a feeling that you are not enough on your own, it may happen that your chosen one this to feel and it starts move away from you. So keep in mind that your goal is not to find yours the other half, but life partner, with which you will each other encouraged and you stood by. It is necessary to do it yourself stick to your goals and on them in the desire to get into a relationship, no way do not forget. Only in this way will you attract someone who he knows exactly, what he wants and will arouse in you motivation and startup.
The reason that a man does not feel freedom in relation to you can also be constant criticizing. You have to remember that you are a partner you choose yourself and that it is important to find a person who has similar life philosophy like yourself. If your target will be a man to change, it will most likely happen that he will start to feel caught, and your words will negatively affect his as well self-confidence.
Finally, you should also remember that fear of attachment a lot of times it has nothing to do with you. If your chosen one is not yet on life points, where you could in an intimate way connected with a partner or he does not yet know what is what he really wants to, then it's time to have a relationship with him leave it.
