Words are often empty, so it is extremely important to know how to express love in other ways. When "I love you" just can't get off your tongue for one reason or another, there are always other, even more beautiful ways to show affection - without words. You know, actions are worth more than 1000 words.
Psychologists have come to the conclusion that we insecurities make them vulnerable, so we prefer to walk the safe path, which can cost us happy love, family or friendship relationships. It is precisely for this reason that it is important to learn to express love also on different ways, because it is actions that count the most. Usually those who love the strongest, the most quietly, are theirs actions speak for themselves.
Even in your life for sure there are people, that you love, and they deserve to be cuddled. Make a difference today and show them through your actions, that you love them!
Why it's hard to say I love you... and how to show it in other ways:
1. Be honest.
Dishonesty is a one-way ticket that will lead a person to a feeling of betrayal, not loved ones. Begin to realize that by being insincere you are letting the person know that they are you don't respect enough, to speak openly with her! You are letting her know that you prefer to hide things from her rather than trust her. With sincerity, you will show how much you care about the person.
2. Give a big hug.
Sometimes a hug tells more than 1000 words and so have scientists countless times proved, give a hug has a strong effect on mood and stress level, which a person feels after a conflict situation. Physical contact is an extremely intimate way of showing love.
3. Show attention.
People often don't realize how little is really needed for happiness. Surprise your favorite person by preparing them small attentions to show that you are thinking of them. By being aware of and fulfilling her wishes, thoughts and needs, you will show that you care really care.
4. Be understanding.
When people are in affect, we are capable of saying many stupid things, but this can cost us happiness and the loss of the person we love. That's why have understanding for your fellow man, which has its own fears, ideas, needs, desires... because this is the most beautiful way to show a person that you care about their well-being. Learn to listen and to understand other people's views, which may not be yours.
5. Listen carefully.
People talk too much, don't they? we don't listen enough. We think we are altruistic, but we immediately start talk about yourself. If you really love someone, you will take the time to listen to the person you love. Listening will show you that really appreciate that, what the person is telling you, and that you care about her problems. Everyone needs a person who will fully surrender and also understand.
6. Appreciate achievements.
Some people's own ego does not allow them to praise and appreciate other people's achievements. But if you learn how to accept the successes of a loved one without a lump in your throat, you will let them know that you value them and their achievements and that you are proud of them.
7. Understand the changes.
People grow up and face different life situations and this is reflected in changes, which cannot be avoided. You may be hurting because the person has become different, but it's not your job to condemn her decisions and life path. If you love sincerely, you will understand and accept new things, because this is the ultimate proof of your love.
8. Be kind to the people you care about.
This does not mean that you have to like or love all the people around your loved one. It just means you're into them kind. It's a great way to show love, especially if the people the person loves are slightly different.
9. Don't scoff!
It may entertain you, but mocking and making fun of a loved one can gives a feeling, that you attack her and that you don't love her enough, to respect her. Staying serious when everyone around you is laughing at her will show that you care about her happiness and well-being.
