Do you feel like your relationship isn't progressing despite all the effort you put in? Does it make sense to persist? Are you facing recurring conflicts?
Maybe it's time to consider whether it's worth sticking around. In some cases, ending the relationship is the healthiest decision.
Check out six signs that can help you recognize when it's better to call it quits than stick with it.
1. Your feelings are not considered
The person you have a problem with only focuses on their own views and he ignores your feelings. When you try to express your opinion, he interrupts you, shouts at you, or silences you so that you cannot even defend yourself. All they care about is winning the argument instead of seeking a solution or peace. If your feelings and opinions they have no value for them, it is difficult to find a way forward.
2. Forgets boundaries because of anger
He may be defaming you publicly on social media where your friends, family and co-workers can see it. Or, during an argument, he insults you with words that even his worst enemy would rarely use. He does not act honestly, but he wants to hurt intentionally and disappoint. If he has crossed the line and his goal is only to cause pain, there is not much room for improvement in the relationship.
3. He refuses to take responsibility for his mistakes
It is rare that one person is completely blameless in a relationship. If he expects you to accept responsibility for your mistakes, so should he acknowledge your role in trouble. If you're the only one apologizing and trying to make things right while he shows no desire to take responsibility, the relationship is probably already badly damaged.
4. You have the same arguments over and over again
You never progress. Whenever you try to talk, you keep coming back to the same disputes and old grudges. He doesn't accept your apologies or show any interest in solving problems. Instead, he just repeats what you did wrong and sees you as the enemy.
If you are the only one trying to improve the relationship, your efforts will be in vain.
5. There is nothing more that can be done
You apologized, listened to his complaints, explained your point of view, were ready for changes and compromises, but nothing works. No matter how much effort you put in, Ms you still can't satisfy. Even though you tried your best, he is still mad at you. Sometimes no matter what you do, there is no way to save the relationship.
6. The relationship is becoming exhausting
This conflict has been going on for a long time and there is no end in sight. You feel like you can't do it anymore. Contact with him only causes you stress and emotional exhaustion. Even though you love him, it may be healthier for both of you to break up. If you only cause each other pain and it doesn't look like things are getting any better, it might be time to say goodbye.
