We make many decisions in life: what we will believe, who we will support, how we will live and who will be by our side... All of these are among the choices that are only ours and we don't need to explain them if we don't want to. We have prepared a list of 10 things that you don't need to explain to anyone.
1. Religious and political beliefs
Religious and political beliefs they belong to the parts of the identity that are most similar to each other we distinguish. There will always be someone who has a completely different political view than you, or will be of a different religion. And there's nothing wrong with that - how boring the world would be if everyone thought the same way. So don't feel like you need to justify your views - only you know why you support a certain system or why do you believe.
2. A love affair
Yours love life it's your private matter, nobody's business but you and your partner and it is only up to you to decide what and how much you will share with others. Remember that every relationship is a story unto itself, so many will not be able to understand its details.
You also don't have to explain, why are you single. This decision is yours alone, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with finding that you need some time for yourself right now.
Your love is only your business Photo: Trung Nguyen / Pexels3. Disagreements
Unfortunately, sometimes it happens in life disagreements. If someone behaved towards you disrespectful and gave you every reason not to want to be around him anymore, it's perfectly normal for him disagreement with such behavior you show and se you withdraw. And that's quite enough - you don't need to explain to that person after that why you made that decision, and even less to those who weren't present during the situation.
4. Life goals
Only you know what you most want to achieve in private and professional life. Having goals to work towards is in itself one of the best positive virtues, but also gives you motivation and startup for future. Therefore, regardless of what you dream about, you do not have to explain it to anyone, let alone allow anyone to convince you that you are aiming too high.
5. Appearance
The most important thing is that you feel good about your appearance comfortable and confidently, whether that means you're wearing make-up or no make-up, tattooed or not, in a short skirt or tracksuit, with bright or natural hair color, etc…. the decision is yours alone and belongs to those that you don't need to explain to anyone.
The most important thing is that you are satisfied with your appearance Photo: Pixabay6. Place of residence
We all find ourselves in various circumstances in life, and some are less pleasant than others. However, no way don't be ashamed, if you are not satisfied with your situation at the moment - don't forget that most people only show in front of others the brightest spots of his life. And you don't owe anyone an explanation either, where and with whom you live and how it came about.
7. Career
Only you know what kind goals in the career field you have and if you think you have achieved them, be proud, regardless of what job it is. Don't let someone who thinks differently determine what you should do and how satisfied you should be with your job.
8. Method of raising children
Every parent has their own upbringing views, principles and techniques– namely, we come from different generations, cultures, etc. If someone doesn't like your upbringing, they will raise their own children in a different way. You know best how you will raise your children brought up to be kind-hearted, sentient you don't need to explain people and your way to anyone.
You know best how you will raise your children Photo: Tatiana Syrikova / Pexels9. Financial condition
Yours too Financial situation is one of those things best kept private. Allow people to form an opinion about you based on yours personalities and regardless of how much you have in your wallet. That way you will also be able to see more easily who is with you sincere intentions.
10. Your past
Everyone carries parts with them of the past– we remember some fondly, others much less. However, it is from the worst moments that you can we learn the most, so don't look at them with guilt, shame and other negative feelings.
But you have to know that you don't need to explain all the parts of your past to others, especially those who weren't by your side at the time and so maybe they wouldn't understand, why certain things happened as they did.
