Love sometimes hurts, and you will see for yourself if you blindly believe in fairy tales - these are the 3 most common illusions, which may cause absolutely every relationship to fail.
From childhood, our heads are filled with ideas about 'a prince on a white horse' and 'happily ever after'.
Then we grow up a bit and they greet us again teenage series about the most beautiful girl, who falls in love with the biggest 'rebel' at school. It then changes and shows its gentler side...
After that, there are various ones in line romance and romantic comedies, which are just the icing on the cake of all the misconceptions that were formed in childhood. All of a sudden we're in our thirties and so unlucky in love... you'll stop believing in them sooner 3 illusions, you will be happy sooner!
3 illusions that will ruin your every relationship
Prince on a white horse
The belief that you have to wait patiently for someone to 'save' you and 'make you happy' is quite dangerous. In fact, you don't need anyone to be happy. Instead of looking for a man who will fit your romantic ideal, look for someone who will treat you with respect and treat you as an equal partner.
"He wants me to save him."
A handsome young man with a sad life story? Oh, surely he was just waiting for you to help him and 'fix' him. Ah, where! Troubled boys are troubled boys, and there is no woman who can change a man against his will.
Soul mate
Can you even define what you mean by 'soulmate'? Hard, right? Don't be disappointed, put yourself on solid ground. The years will fly by, and you will possibly be looking for something that you are not even sure of yourself.
We can only have a good and healthy relationship with those who they respect our individuality and whose individuality we ourselves respect. A relationship should never be an end in itself, but a choice that we have made consciously and responsibly, with a lot, lots of love.
