They say love is blind. The pain of a breakup or unrequited love from Mars attracts irrational behavior. Ask yourself, do you respect yourself enough to follow these three tips?
First loves teach us important lessons. Above all, you must first respect yourself!
Look at yourself and your behavior and you will (hopefully) come to the realization that life is too short to keep stumbling over the same stone. Appreciate yourself, don't put yourself down. Love those who love you!
Let's look at three lessons about love that many women learn too late, and some never.
1. You can't make anyone love you
All you can do is show them love. Everything else depends on the other person. No matter how hard you try to love them, it will always not be mutual. The person will not feel and have the same feelings for you.
The bottom line is that you can be the best version of yourself to give others the most reason to love you. That's all you can do. Everything else depends on them.
You shouldn't be with someone just because they love you, but because love is mutual. It's your choice, and again – yours alone!
Don't give in to your mental illusions! Photo: Becca Tapert/Unsplash2. The person gives you love, in their own way
And not the way you expect her to. Everyone expresses their feelings in their own way. You can't tell anyone how to love you. Love is a reflection of the human soul.
Learn to accept love as it is. Appreciate it and be grateful.
3. Unconditional love applies not only to others, but also to you
You know how to love under certain conditions, you know how to judge and criticize. Stop, that's the only way you can feel true love. You have to start with yourself!
Learn to love yourself in any form, then you will be able to love others.
