What is the secret that only happy couples know? Is there a special recipe for love that keeps it alive and blooming over the years?
Happy couples are always enviable. Are they really as happy as they look and do they know something you don't? Probably, despite all the advice not to compare yourself to others, no one is perfect and no relationship is ideal.
There is no universal recipe for a successful relationship, there are certain habits and behaviors that are characteristic of stable and happy relationships. If you feel like there are happy relationships where people do something different than you (and know something you don't), read on.
The truth is that happiness in a relationship does not happen by itself - happy couples wisely and persistently try to build and maintain their love.
Habits that happy couples have
1. Expressing gratitude
Happy couples regularly express their gratitude to each other. Expressing gratitude and recognition does not require grand gestures or events, but sincerity. Gratitude strengthens the feeling of being valued and respected in a relationship.
2. Arguing
Conflict is an inevitable part of any relationship, but happy couples realize that how they deal with conflict is key. Instead of attacking or criticizing each other, they try to focus on solving the problem constructively and together. They respect each other even during arguments.
Their happiness is contagious. Photo: Ben White / Unsplash3. They are looking for what they need
Never expect your partner to read your mind. Happy couples cultivate the habit of communicating clearly about their thoughts, needs and feelings. This means open and honest communication.
4. Knowing your partner's love language
Each partner gives and receives love in their own way. Happy couples strive to understand their partner's love language and express love in a way that their partner understands best. This increases the feeling of love and connection in the relationship.
5. Doing household chores together
Sharing household responsibilities is important for maintaining balance and respect in a relationship. Happy couples support each other in tasks and strive to make each other's lives easier.
6. Cuddles and physical touches
Physical touch and cuddling have a strong impact on the emotional connection between partners. Happy couples find time to express their affection through hugs, cuddles and touches, even when they are busy or tired.
Happiness is in you. In you. In it. In you! Photo: Cassie Lopez/Unsplash7. Difficult conversations
Dealing with difficult topics and uncomfortable conversations is important for the health of a relationship. Happy couples don't avoid difficult conversations, but bravely tackle them and find solutions. They know that ignoring problems doesn't solve anything.
8. They set boundaries and forgive
Respecting boundaries and being able to forgive are key to a healthy relationship. Happy couples set boundaries and sincerely apologize and forgive when mistakes or conflicts occur.
9. They value independence
Happy couples value both closeness and independence. They respect the need for space and privacy and allow each other freedom. Independence contributes to the preservation of individuality and at the same time promotes deep connection in a relationship.
Happy and stable relationships are not the result of chance, but the result of conscious effort and habits.
