No, it's not a puzzle. It's quite a simple thing.
This is not a story about physics, but about nature and society and a little about chemistry. Women are complicated, but on this issue, women are very simple.
Most women find men sexy!
Relationship
When a man loudly and clearly says and shows what he thinks and feels - about any topic. When he is steadfast, concrete and convincing in a relationship. When he's confident for a reason. He is not confident in himself, he is open. He hears and respects what others think. He is also like this when it comes to expressing his emotions.
Of course, there are women who still fall in love with changeable, elusive and mysterious men, but sooner or later they realize that this is not the man for them. For those who enjoy behaving masochistically towards women, we advise only one thing - referral to a psychotherapist. Men, tell women what you think, be emotional and vulnerable. No woman will be immune to it.
Self image
Just as men don't like a woman not to value herself, women also don't like men who don't respect, appreciate and know their boundaries. Weakness is not sexy. You shouldn't let anyone spin you around your finger. Integrity, morality and dignity are priceless and very sexy. Stand up for yourself, take responsibility and don't worry. You are not a sidewalk for others to walk on.
Intelligence
An intelligent man is eloquent and resourceful. Sometimes he can talk about everything for hours and hours, until the moment when the woman realizes that they are on the same wavelength - then she falls in love. Wavelength is more important than good looks.
How many times have you heard someone say they fell for another person's looks? A million times! After the initial storm in the brain, the conclusion is always the same: "It appeals to me initially, but not in the long run." Intelligence is what attracts women.
Sense of humor
A sense of humor is innate, either you have it or you don't, and it's hard to learn. So if this is your innate talent, make sure you make the most of it. A woman will be happy if she is relaxed and smiling in your company.
Indecision
Don't be uncreative, lazy and bored. Inspire a woman. Take matters into your own hands, make an effort and take action. Surprise her. Make up your mind. Go ahead. Don't wait for the woman to do it first. Don't let her wear pants.
Situation
Men who are perpetual students or who still live with their parents in their 40s are not sexy. And it's not sexy at all if his mother still cooks for him. It's sexy when a man cooks something for himself or his girlfriend, but maybe not on the first date.
An independent and situated man is one who is happy and satisfied. He is sexy when he is independent in making decisions and does not seek confirmation and approval from someone else. He is sexy when he stands behind his woman and defends her from others. And he doesn't just nod and is incapable of standing up for what should be important to him.
And another secret... Voice, hands and smile. If you whisper something nice in her ear, then you can hug her and smile at her. This will open your way to a woman's heart and has nothing to do with height, weight, function and bank account.
It just has to do with making a woman feel loved by you and that's it irresistibly sexy.
