A man does not determine your worth. Especially not one that doesn't stick around long enough to see your true self.
They don't know you, they only see a version of you that their mind has put together from their past experiences and assumptions.
The number of likes does not determine your worth.
Everyone on the dating app only sees a snapshot of you, a smile frozen in time. They don't see the way your eyes light up when you smile. They see only a fraction of the whole picture.
You determine your own worth. Photo: Luca Iaconelli / UnsplashYour Facebook status does not determine your worth.
No one is using this site to track you. They use it to label themselves, to pretend they have an orderly life, to impress people they think are paying attention to them but aren't. No one even realizes that your status is set to “single”.
Your beauty does not determine your worth.
A mirror cannot tell you anything about you. He doesn't know what kind of soul you have or how hard you worked to get where you are. Even if your reflection was perfect, would you really want to be with someone who only values your body?
Your Instagram pictures don't define your worth.
The “happy” couples who appear on your channel may have taken the photo after a big fight, before a tearful outburst, or during or on the verge of a breakup. You never know what story lies behind a photo.
You are beautiful, single or in a relationship. Photo: Candice Picard/UnsplashYour single status does not determine your worth.
Think of all the empowered women in the world who don't have a man by their side. They are no less beautiful or intellectual just because they are alone. Happiness does not lie in the embrace of a man. Everything you can do with it, you can do without it, right up to orgasm.
Sure, it would be nice to say goodbye to the single life, but you shouldn't doubt yourself, a relationship doesn't define your worth. It depends only on you.
