What are the signs that point to a relationship that was created because of your past?
Karmic relationships evoke strong emotions - they carry emotional turbulence from the past and arise to learn great and important lessons, mostly those that we have missed.
How do you know that you are in a relationship with such a person?
Look out for the following signs:
1. You feel an immediate connection
You immediately felt something pull you towards them. You may think that this person is your soul mate.
2. The relationship with this person can be addictive
You feel like this person is all you need in life. You feel like you can't do a single thing without her.
3. Develop interdependence
One of the signs that karma is present in a relationship is codependency. Your life depends on your partner and you cannot do anything without him. You lose your sense of individuality.
4. Experiencing a whirlwind of ups and downs
You experience so many ups and downs with this person that it feels like you're on a roller coaster that never stops. One moment you are happy and in love, and the next you are on the verge of a nervous breakdown and divorce.
5. Feelings of jealousy and possessiveness
All the problems in your relationship open the deepest wounds in you. It is possible that the turbulence in your relationship will leave you feeling insecure, jealous and possessive, but also powerless and hopeless.
6. Arguments and outbursts of anger
The relationship situation is very unpredictable and changeable. Constant fights, outbursts of stress become your daily routine. Arguments are repeated over and over again and this drains you mentally and emotionally.
7. Ignore the warning signs
When you met this person, you saw a lot of warning signs telling you that something was wrong, but you chose to ignore them because you thought that your relationship was so strong that you could make everything better, but time brought disappointment.
8. The feeling of fear of loneliness
You fear losing that person.
9. Controlling partners
Fear of loss creates a situation where control seems to be the only effective solution. You control and limit each other to provide a sense of safety and stability or to reduce the fear of losing that person.
10. Crossing borders
Although you try to set boundaries, your partner is always prone to manipulation. When you fall into his trap of manipulation, you will think that you are responsible for his mistakes, which significantly lowers his self-esteem.
When it comes to karmic relationships that are difficult to get out of, you may need help. It is important not to doubt yourself, to be aware of your values, self-confidence and abilities - working on yourself is what can protect you from such relationships.
