Have you ever wondered how some couples look so happy? That their relationship is still strong after many years and that it seems like they are speaking some hidden language of love that you don't understand yourself? Many times the answer lies in the conscious decision to work hard for the relationship and make sure every day that their partner feels valued and loved. We have prepared for you 5 habits that successful couples do every week.
1. Small gestures of love
Do you have the feeling that in a relationship it is essential that you do things for your partner grand gestures, spend as much time as possible on joint trips, you buy expensive gifts… Of course there is nothing wrong with such behavior, but what most really need are little signs of love and affection. They can be long, sweet kiss, when your partner returns from work after a long day, sincere interest for what happened to him during the day and how he feels, the statement itself: "I love you,”…
The warmth you can also show by doing housework, which is not among your partner's favorites, you write to him morning message, how much you love him, surprise him with afternoon activity, who adores her…
Surprise your partner with a small gesture of love Photo: Gary Barnes / Pexels2. 6 hours just for the two of you
The reason that the spark in a relationship begins to fade may simply be that you are they don't take time, which would survive him in two. Yes, there are shared moments at hectic lifestyle hard to find, but for a happy relationship it is imperative that you try your best. According to experts, that is the magic number at least 6 hours a week, i.e. 6 hours that you dedicate only to each other.
You can spend this time in exactly the way that suits you best: at conversation, gentle touches, evening or morning a walk, daydreaming on the couch…
3. Questions and joint plans
You may think that Fr partner and his plans you know everything there is to know, but sometimes it turns out not to be true. If you and your partner are already together more years, it is quite possible that your goals and desires are completely different, as they were when they met. That's why it's important to make time for deep conversations and each other they ask about dreams, ambitions and fears.
Besides main goals, who must be in a serious relationship clear, we also advise conversations about those more relaxed topics. Ask your partner where he would like to go to travel, what else would you like in life experienced, what kind an adventure he is most attracted to…
Do you know what your partner dreams about? Photo: Samet Korkmaz / Pexels4. Dating
Do you still remember beginning of the relationship, when you were nervously preparing for date? Well, now you don't have to feel nervous anymore, and dating should remain something that it still is organize regularly. They dedicate these evenings admiration each other, sweet and relaxed moments and visiting yours favorite corners. You can get to restaurant, on a concert or in cinema or you can simply prepare it yourself a picnic.
5. Talking about your relationship
Experts advise that you are with a partner once a week take an hour for talk about your relationship. They start with the things and events that they tackled the correct way, e.g. the misunderstandings they have resolved no argument help, which they dedicated to each other... It is important that each other praise.
Then they do more possible problems. Experts recommend that during the week you do things that you two they disturb or they want them to change, write to special sheet of paper, which you then read during the weekly conversation. In this way, you will be able to look at the problem sober and realistic and instead of fighting, focused on hers rescue.
During the conversation, also ask your partner what you can do to make him feel as comfortable as possible beloved and you tell him, via whose gesture feel its warmth yourself.
