Have you ever fallen in love and not been loved back? You are, aren't you? Perhaps in kindergarten, teenage years or perhaps in the mature years. The pain you experience is the same regardless of age. It hurts!
That kind of love is what you needed back then. A lesson you had to learn.
Perhaps you experienced an inexperienced love story at the age of fourteen or at the age of forty. Devastating pain is the same, its strength has nothing to do with your maturity and ability to handle life's blows.
It's about starting something and changing how you feel. You become different through it. And her; you wouldn't change an unhappy and unrequited love into true love for anything in the world, because it's what shaped you into the person you are now.
It can be one or more of them, it is a series of experiences that last until you learn certain lessons.
If you don't know how to progress in personal development, how to work on yourself and change - fall in love.
All the intense emotions you've suppressed or didn't want to admit to yourself will build up inside you and force you to face yourself, to discover all the parts of yourself you didn't know you had.
It doesn't matter where this love leads, it doesn't need to succeed because it has already achieved its purpose.
After a while, only the most intense memories remain, and these are memories of your own feelings, of excitement.
You will remember more the moment when your loved one conquered you, loved you, hugged you, which made you feel unique, important loved one, than you remember stupid quarrels, deceptions, misunderstandings.
Because what is true in love survives and remains. It has power and does not change. It's yours, forever. The body remembers love with every cell. One day you will be able to enjoy your feelings, completely carefree.
Every experience makes you stronger! Photo: Hannah Busing/UnsplashYou will be amazed at the capacity of your heart to love and give, at its nobility and tenderness, and you will not need anything in return.
When you experience unrequited love, you realize the full depth of grief, all its eddies and lagoons, and it takes time to get over the loss. Because this feeling of loss is like the feeling of losing someone forever. The heart needs time to heal.
He is stronger when he heals, even with all the scars. It gives you awareness and confidence. You begin to understand the lessons, and you notice patterns, confront them, and get rid of them.
This sadness doesn't just come from never getting to experience that love, or from dreams that won't come true. Moreover, also from what you could have with this person, but you were not meant to be with them.
The pain will go away and you will find the love you deserve. And then you will immediately know what love is. Love through which you grow and develop.
