A long distance relationship can be a big challenge, but with these tips it will be much easier.
Sometimes it seems that a long distance relationship is practically impossible. Lack of physical contact, separate schedules, kilometers between partners. But the fact is that many manage to maintain and build a relationship despite the great distance. Here are some tips that will make it much easier.
Communication is essential
It is important that each of the partners is heard. And that everyone is able to express their needs and wishes and feel heard. And respected.
Photo: Unsplash/Ben CollinsTrust is built on good communication
At the same time, effective communication is built on trust. For couples to work well at a distance, each person needs and deserves to be able to count on good communication, on a comforting conversation with a confidant on the other side.
Long distance relationships benefit from a healthy balance of planning, flexibility and spontaneity
If the couple clearly defines when and how often they will see and hear each other, it is much easier to make plans. Also, each partner knows when he will have time for himself and his friends. Talking about this and expectations related to communication involves a lot of creativity and emotional intelligence. At the same time, this means nurturing a social life outside of the relationship.
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Photo: envatoRituals help keep the couple grounded
Even at a distance, you can continue with the activities you cultivated at the beginning of the relationship or on first dates. For example, if you and your partner liked to spend evenings with a glass of good wine, you can connect via video call and enjoy a glass each while you talk and reflect on the day's events.
"Not too tight, not too loose"
Success for long distance relationships is based on Buddhist thinking”not too tight, not too loose.” It is important that partners cultivate closeness and deep intimacy, while at the same time giving each other the necessary space to breathe.
Photo: envatoDisagreements can also be ironed out remotely
It is inevitable that partners will disagree on certain points. This is completely normal. But a couple who see each other less regularly must find ways to express their worries, disappointments, fear, pain and vulnerability. In ways that can be done remotely.
