Oh, this crush. For romantics, it's considered the most beautiful emotion they can feel, but it's still a puzzle for experts. Although we know the chemical reactions that take place in our brains when we like someone, we still don't know what exactly makes a person fall in love. This time we inquired about another question that many researches tackle: how long does it take to really fall in love?
Humans have always wondered about the world of love. We are interested in how it is possible that we are almost attracted to certain individuals at the moment, when we get to know them, and the energies of others in general we don't feel it? Does true love really happen only after a certain time of the relationship, or we will already feel it a lot with the person who is really meant for us faster? We asked what he claimed science: how long does it take to really fall in love?
Do you also wonder about the world of falling in love? Photo: Monstera / PexelsHow long does it take to fall in love?
You may be wondering if it is even possible to calculate time period, after which it starts falling in love. Each individual interprets this term slightly differently. Some perceive it as strong attraction, which sometimes they feel before the chosen one even get to know, while others recognize this emotion as deep intimacy, which requires a certain period of relationship.
A study published in a scientific journal Journal of Personality and Social Psychology he perceives falling in love as another, i.e. an emotion very close to that one deep love, where we are ready to do everything for our partner. She showed that she did men for him, on average, they need 97 days, women well 149 days.
According to research, men fall in love faster than women Photo: Katerina Holmes / PexelsWhat makes us fall in love faster?
Of course, the speed with which we fall in love is affected several different factors. According to psychologists, it is the first for sure our attachment style. People who most identify with ambivalent or anxious type of attachment (the type in which they need a lot of their partner's attention and often doubt their feelings), usually they fall in love faster, while people with evasive types of attachment (it is characterized by avoiding intimacy) they need to fall in love more time.
Another factor is properties the person with whom we enter into a romantic relationship. Experts note that we are most attracted to people whose behavior reminds us of the love we received in childhood and traits of our parents. Similarity it gives us what we know a sense of security and thus causes us to feel emotions more quickly. If our childhood was not the best, it is therefore very important to spend time with yours we face traumas and them let's clear up: in this way, we will avoid falling in love with partners who would not be interested in us a healthy relationship.
The third factor that affects the speed of falling in love is sexuality. Many people increased attachment feelings after they have sex with their partner, so sometimes the feelings also appear after casual sex and relationships without commitment.
There are also other actors, but they vary from individual to individual they differ. Some people perceive strong emotions only after their partner really get to know and find out how well his suits them personality. On the other hand, many feel in love only on the basis sexual attraction, and the character match causes them to feel the same true love. In any case, when falling in love, it is necessary to look at the relationship as well realistically and evaluate whether we see each other in of the future or it's just physical attraction.
