We all deserve a relationship where our partner treats us with respect and takes our feelings into account. Nevertheless, it can happen that we find ourselves in a relationship that is far from healthy - a relationship in which our partner's actions and words cause us to start doubting ourselves. Then we lie to ourselves and convince ourselves that everything is fine or that it is our own fault that the situation is not as we would like it to be. That is why we have prepared 5 signs for you that will show you that you are lying to yourself about your relationship.
1. You blame yourself
In toxic relationships, it often happens that one of the people initiates to blame for partners conduct, words and falls out. It feels like you're acting like that deserves– if there wasn't something wrong with her and her behavior wrong, then the partner wouldn't be like that, right?
This is far from the truth. You must realize that you are every human deserves love and respect and yes for the partner's insults and hurtful behavior by no means it's not your fault. If you know that the relationship you try and that you are to your partner kind and compassionate, then let it be clear to you that you are done enough. He is for his feelings responsible myself and it is by no means just that they should burden of the entire relationship was carried by only one person.
Have you noticed that you feel guilty for your partner's actions? Photo: Karolina Grabowska / Pexels2. You make excuses
Are you constantly searching? reasons and excuses for the partner's actions? You tell yourself that he was into you rude, because he just had bad day and it's up to you strict because that's what it is to yourself? This indicates the fact that you are in a relationship you are lying.
It's normal to try for a partner to understand and to accept. It can happen to everyone at some point not the best will and that during an argument he says something that the other does not want to say affects. However, it is something completely different if such behavior they repeat and the partner makes no effort to change them. The same goes if she acts like she's yours emotions they are not important - all this shows that it is by no means a healthy relationship.
3. Tell yourself you're exaggerating
You must be aware that they are yours feelings worth exactly as much as partner's. If you his words or actions affect, you have every right to do so express and to tackle it together conversation, how to achieve that similar situations in the relationship will no longer occur.
If you constantly tell yourself that you are too much sensitive and yes you are exaggerating, this is a sign of concern. You have to remember that in a healthy relationship you will have a partner ready to listen and make an effort to felt as good as possible.
In a healthy relationship, the emotions of both partners are equally important Photo: Jonathan Borba / Pexels4. You present a different image to your friends
Or your loved ones constantly you convince, that your relationship good luck and Hello? Yes, of course you don't have to explain to your girlfriends about to every little quarrel, but it's something completely different when you present them with a picture, completely different from reality. If you feel like yours honesty caused those close to you to start convincing you that the relationship leave it, this is a very bad sign.
Do not forget: worthy you're in a relationship that won't let you down ashamed to speak.
5. Doubt your memories
A relationship with a toxic partner can make you want to start doubt not only into yourself, but also into your own memories. This happens if your partner regularly convinces, yes yours quarrel it wasn't so bad that you were the one who acted wrong, that you are something forgot… Then it is important to make an effort to have love yourself and to remember that you can yourself you trust.
Departure getting out of a toxic relationship isn't the easiest, but you need to know that you are earn much more. A person who will truly love you will not want you to feel any way stupid and doubt yourself.
