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6 signs your partner is a pathological liar

When do you know he has a problem?!

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It is completely normal to find ourselves in a situation where we tell a white lie or a well-intentioned lie from time to time. It's something completely different if we notice that someone keeps lying - it's hard to trust such a person, and it's even harder to maintain a relationship with them. To avoid this, we have prepared for you 6 signs that your partner is a pathological liar.

1. His stories change

Yes, sometimes it happens, yes details they disappear from our memory and to tell the same story for a bit different ways. However, it is something else if you notice this happening to your partner constant and that in the story he has already told you, they suddenly appear other persons and appear new attractions. This could be a sign that he is saying as much lies, to them simply can no longer follow and remember the last thing he came up with. Therefore, we suggest that you are in this case careful.

Do you think your partner's story has changed? Photo: Gary Barnes / Pexels

2. His lies are banal and trivial

Do you ever catch your partner lying about something like this? banal and unimportant, that you don't understand why he didn't just tell you the truth? It is characteristic of pathological liars that lying goes into their habit to the point where they start lying outright instinctively and without any particular purpose. We advise you that in such a situation with your partner talk and let him know how much he means to you honesty.

3. Does not show a sense of guilt

Watch your partner behaves, when you catch him in a lie. Do you get the feeling that it is real to him sorry and you notice that this behavior stops in the future or you encounter it again and again empty promises and you suspect that because he hurt you with lies, anyway? If it's the latter, it's time to ask yourself why in such a relationship you persist. You deserve a person who will be yours feelings taken into account and respected.

Watch your partner's reaction when you catch them in a lie Photo: Rodnae Productions / Pexels

4. Lies to get attention

Experts are still not completely agreed on why pathological lying occurs - in some cases, such behavior is a sign personality disorders, but sometimes it is observed in people who do not have other mental deviations. However, one can be found in most pathological liars a common symptom namely lying for attention.
An example of such behavior is if you find out that your partner has lied to you about what kind work performs how much of money he has… Perhaps he presented his situation as great in his desire for admiration better, as he really is, but perhaps in his desire for your attention he pretended to be in dire straits problems.

5. His stories are full of details

The stories of pathological liars are well known colors, drama and heaps of amazing ones details. The details are the sign of one the most common lying techniques– namely, they cause events to happen at all don't doubt it. That's why we advise you to be careful, if you think it's your partner's life more interesting from anyone else's life, but also watch how to friends describes the events, which they experienced together.

Does your partner present his life to you as colorful and luxurious? Photo: Austin Distel/Unsplash

6. He gets defensive when told the truth

Most people are shame, if someone - especially if this person is their partner - caught in a lie. In the case of pathological liars, you will most likely not notice this emotion at all, because they will cover it up anger and blaming you. When you find out the truth, such a partner will try turn the situation around so that it will look like it has it's him, but he will not want his lies to admit for nothing in the world.
Such behavior, of course it will do no good not to him, not to you, least of all to your relationship. It is one of the foundations of a healthy relationship honesty and without it, the question of whether it is worth the relationship quickly arises to continue.

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