We have all experienced the feeling that life is passing us by and that we find ourselves again and again in unwanted and unexpected situations. That's why it's important to consciously decide to take control of your life and decide for yourself exactly how it will go. We have prepared 6 steps for you on how to take control of your life and thus realize your goals and desires.
1. Identify your goals and create a strategy
It's completely normal to feel a little off sometimes lost, but it is essential that you are at least roughly aware of who are you and what do you want. If this is not clear to you, it will be difficult for you to achieve your goals to realize: because you won't know how they look like.
That's why we suggest you take some time to yourself think about it, which ones values are most important to you and how will you approach them strive for daily. Also, determine what yours are goals: so on personal as well as on career area. Then decide by yourself or with the help of friends, partner... strategy, which will help you get them as soon as possible you achieve.
It's important to have a clear plan Photo: Andrea Piacquadio / Pexels2. Get rid of false beliefs
Sometimes we do goals hard to reach because deep inside we don't believe it, so that we could do it. Not only that, it can lead to behaviors that harm themselves we are sabotaging, but you can also us he retorts from being undertaken more difficult challenges, e.g. to accept a job that would demand more of us.
That's why it's important to recognize, which beliefs they hold you back - that's the only way you'll get over them got rid of. Many people realize that their negative feelings come from childhood: if this is true for you too, look at them from realistic angle: the offensive words you heard as a child do not have completely no connection with you.
3. Take responsibility for your actions
To truly take control of your life, you must learn Take responsibility. This does not mean that you are developing negative feelings to yourself if you have a certain challenge don't get lucky, but that you are capable of negative behavior recognize and improve. Remember, only through errors you can we are making progress and the first step lies in knowing them to admit.
Responsibility means that from time to time let's look at our lives and let's think about it, in which areas could their actions improved and how to get there.
Don't be afraid to talk about what you can improve Photo: Ketut Subiyanto / Pexels4. Take time to rest
The feeling that we are losing control over our lives can come from fatigue and burnout. Many times in striving for success we forget that our body absolutely needs it rest and that there is no reason to feel that way guilty.
In addition to neat sleep routines is also very important mental rest: the easiest way to reach it is via meditation, recreation, of creation, trips…
5. Be kind to yourself
The fastest way to achieve success and control over your own life is with self-confidence: and it requires that you feel for yourself love. We suggest starting each day with something affirmations, in which you will list the things that you like about your personality and appearance like the most. Then, during the day, challenge yourself to stop every time you meet with negative thoughts and replace them with positive ones.
So it is also important to you don't compare with others: remember that timeline varies from person to person and yes the success of others it doesn't mean anything of your defeat. You should also not forget that you can only see for yourself a piece of the lives of others and that no one experiences only happy moments.
Never look at yourself with negative feelings Photo: Ivan Oboleninov / Pexels6. Be as organized as possible
Loss of control is often the fruit lack of organization: if you tackle at the same time heaps of challenges and all the time you are racing against time, it shows that you need something to change. It will be much easier if you are initially each day, week, and month determine what is yours goals, which ones tasks are the most important and by when you have to with a certain thing finish.
Not only will you have a lot this way a better performance over your schedule, but you will victorious feel every time you complete a task concluded and that in the notebook or on the phone marked.
