A partner is a person with whom we should be ready to share all parts of our lives and to entrust even those things that we usually keep to ourselves. Nevertheless, it may happen that the partner has some small secrets that he keeps quiet from his girlfriend. We asked why this is so and what things men most often hide from their partners.
1. Insecurity about appearance
There is a lot of talk about in the media unrealistic beauty standards for women. But men can also feel self-conscious about their appearance uncertain, se compared to others or they even get the feeling that without a sculpted body, they are not a partner good enough.
So to your partner tell me and show me, how attractive he is. Most confident he will feel when it is clear to him that he is the most beautiful in the eyes of the person who means the most to him.
Even men feel insecure about their appearance Photo: Andrea Piacquadio / Pexels2. Uncertainty about finances and career
Most men want a partner with their own finances and career to impress, so they can feel good about these areas quickly uncertain. Sometimes their situations are too shame, so they don't show their real picture to the girl. The same can happen if they are about their job worried, are afraid to try them something new etc. In the modern world, it's hard not to to compare with the rest, and it is even more difficult to look to the future carefree.
That's why it's important to partner let it be known, that there is no reason to put your own before you insecurity hid and that you will be with him in his official endeavors stood by.
3. Fear of proximity
Heartache it is considered to be one of the worst experiences of life, which unfortunately most people go through. Many men have their own feelings hard to share with friends, so breaking up is even harder for them than for many women. That is why it is possible that your partner approach and love somewhat fights: he is afraid that he would be hurt again.
In this case, we advise you to get closer to each other slow and gradually and to give to your partner a sense of security and loved ones.
Your partner may be afraid of being hurt again Photo: Shvets Production / Pexels4. The opinion of their friends and family
The most important thing in a relationship is how you feel about each other partner herself. However, even so, it is not the most pleasant if they are friends and family by choosing a life partner they don't agree. That's why many men share this information with their partners hold back and he prefers to make her feel that there is no dislike.
Even though the partner keeps the secret because you he doesn't want to hurt, it is sometimes good that relationships with his loved ones clear up. Their feelings can only come from the fact that they don't like you they know well enough, or it is about misunderstanding, which can be solved.
5. Traumas from the past
If you have already experienced it trauma, then you probably understand why the partner about such an event it's not the easiest thing to talk about. He may feel that he was behind the situation my own fault, maybe just talking about her it hurts, may need more time, so that I could fully open up to you…
It is important that the man don't force it, that he immediately confides in you how, for example, his childhood went, but he gentle way you let him know that you are always there for him ready to listen.
6. Anger or negative feelings
We are people to each other different: some feel the need to they speak immediately about any uncertainty, while others avoid conflict at all costs they avoid. Sometimes men feel that about a certain situation not worth discussing, therefore your feelings shut up or they behave somewhat towards their partner colder.
If you notice that it is not the easiest for your partner to talk about his feelings, let him know gentle way tell him you want him to be in a relationship as happy as possible. Show him that every misunderstanding will not lead to a big fight and that it is very important for you to cultivate open communication.
Show him that you are always ready to listen to him Photo: Jhno Ferreira / Pexels7. Relationship uncertainty
Some men are used to keeping things to themselves even if it's their own doubt the relationship and they feel that they cannot see their partner in the future. Instead of making your feelings expressed, they decide to wait and thus find out what they actually feel.
But don't let that scare you: the relationship he's in communication open and sincere, has much less chance for such a conclusion. Most of the problems in the relationship can be solved with your partner conversation and changes in behavior save, so don't be afraid to show your partner that you can o possible problems he always talks to you.
